Tuesday, May 22, 2012

Day Care Centers




Today I went and shopped around for a childcare center. I will be student teaching in the fall (for which I receive no income, so it's like free labor), and I will need to send Victor to a childcare center. He will be about 5 months by then.
The interesting thing is seeing the other side, meaning being the parent and not the teacher. Selecting a center that will fit the needs and price is important. While working at a childcare center as a teacher I had no idea what and how much it is for parents to sent their children. What I am realizing (now that I am at the other end) is that I want a quality place that is at a fair price. What is a fair price? Well generally speaking it is a price that is affordable. At this time (current money system) I don't think any price for a childcare center is affordable for majority of parents out there.The full time price per month is basically either a 2 week or 1 month pay check that a 1 parent can receive. I would be paying more to send my child to a center than the amount I made working at the center. That is CRAZY!
There is of course the government pay help, but for that one needs to qualify with a significant low income.
Next it is the quality of the center. I went to visit one today that looked like a "bomb" fell in there. Really cheap organization and when I went to the infant room....lol it looked depressing. The centers were not divided, the cribs were old school, they were also different types and the one thing that I did not like about the center was that the infant room was from 6 weeks to 24 months. There is a HUGE development that goes on during this age period. I mean you have a baby that can hardly move and a toddler that is all over the place. Honestly I "feel" bad for the teachers. Having been one that worked with infants and toddlers, they would have to have their eyes open all the time. It is not safe to have toddlers running around infants. Where I worked we would not even place an infant on the floor to explore when having a 14 month and up running around and falling over and tossing toys around (at 14 they moved up to toddlers where there was more space for mobility and different focus as well as skills and activities to work on their development).
Anyhow, obviously this place did not have the extra room to offer separate space for different developing skills in children. So even though it was the cheapest place I found, it was also the worse of quality I have seen. It is not a place I would sent Victor to. And I don't blame the place of course, it is the system we allow and accept because this place is obviously due to remodeling and revamping and who knows what their budget is. It is always about money....that is why The Equal Money System IS the BEST proposal EVER to be made in the history of mankind.
I will have to visit a few other places and make my decision.


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Wednesday, May 2, 2012

Cars: Who will make them and who will get one in EMS?



Cars: Who will make them and who will get one in EMS?

This question has a relatively simple answer.
From a practical perspective we need transportation to move around in the physical. So YES, there will still be cars made. The difference here is that cars will no longer have a status of more or less valuable. All cars will be made to their best needs to serve their practical purpose. There will be no luxury cars and no trash cars and middle class cars. All cars will hold an equal value. The brands you know of today will be replaced for the purpose of erasing the idea we have about value of cars.
Who will get a car? Those who actually require to have one. If you live in a place that does not require you to have a car and you are able to use other provided transportation then you will not be needed to get a car. This will reduce the production of cars and other transportation to match our actual needs not just the idea of having a car to show status within society. With reducing the production we will have more space available to us on the streets. Same goes for public transportation.
Cars will be made to last because that is what makes sense. Today cars are made not to last on purpose so that companies can make more profit. The life span of a car does not only depend on how one takes care of their car (which will be taught to people how to, and resources will be available to everyone to take good care of the vehicle) but it also depends on how the car is manufactured (the starting point).
Another point to consider when talking about cars is the fuel that will be used. Obviously the fuel will no longer be oil. We all know we are running out of oil and draining Earth out of its "blood" like vampires will simply not be acceptable as it is not what is best for all. There are methods out there for other energy sources to move vehicles. And if not good enough, there will be more research done on this issue to find a method that is save for Earth and it serves the purpose of fueling vehicles. That will require for cars to be manufactured to use different source of fuel.

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Will there be Black Friday and Cyber Monday in EMS?


Will there be Black Friday and Cyber Monday in EMS?

It is that time of the year, the day after "Thanks Giving" which always falls on a Friday. The day where people line up like crazy in front of stores that have HUGE deals (meaning buy stuff for really cheap). The day where people would tent out for hours in front of a store in order to buy something for cheaper.
I have never been to a Black Friday event before so I decided to check it out this year. And I am not surprised at what I expected....long lines, cold weather, people with hopes to buy something for cheaper than usual and a lot of wasted time spent on one spot! Was it worth? I suppose that depends on what one wants out of this so called "deal"! But for most people is going insane over "sales".
If we look at "Black Friday" in reality it was designed by corporations to make more profit. It poses in as these HUGE deals off items where only certain amount of people can get. It gives people the opportunity to spent money on things they may not need, it gives people the opportunity to fight over items, it is like a competition.
When they finally opened the doors to Best Buy, people literally fought to enter inside the store. Once in the store it was a fast walking around to grab all the shit first. Then more long lines waiting to get items that were on the big sales. In some instances people have gotten hurt because common sense goes out the door and competition comes in dividing people, making sure that "I get the best" comes first.
"Cyber Monday" is Monday following Black Friday. But this time people "fight" on the internet and of course spend more money. It is another corporate day designed to make profit.

So will there be such thing as Black Friday and Cyber Monday in EMS? The answer is obviously NO. Since practical resources will be equally available to everyone and money in the form of profit will be something of the past there will be NO need for such days to exists. It would simply make no sense to have such days, just as anything that carries the title of "Sale" will never be heard of again. Simply no need. NO profit based economy, no competition based economy, No Sales Dates, NO % off items. Resources will be worth the price they took to be fairly manufactured. Resources will be practical, will be available to everyone, will be durable and everyone will be able to afford them at the price they took to make.


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NO Need to Lie or Cheat in EMS



If we ultimately look at why people learn to lie and cheat throughout their lives it is because by doing so they have the impression they will benefit from it and get something out of it.
We begin to apply those "tools" from early age because we are scared, we fear something, we want to impress someone, please someone, do better than another and ultimately "reserve" our spot on the top rather than being stepped on. So in a way cheating and lying is a form a competition that plays out subconsciously.
If I look back into my childhood the times I had to either lie or cheat were justified by being afraid I would disappoint my parents or done to spite another. As adults however it becomes even more tangled up as we look to place ourselves in better position within the world and more so within the financial world. We take what we learned as children, young adults and use it towards reassuring our survival so to speak. Because of the way  the current moment system is set up we are predespositioned to lie and cheat. Of course it occurs in different levels. One might steal, another may do an insurance fraud but no matter what the action is the bottom line is one has to cheat or lie their way out of it.
In an EMS that would simply not exist as the main cause=money will not be an issue. More over once we have established ourselves within an EMS the idea of pleasing another to get something out of them will not be necessary.
Ultimately in an EMS we don't live to "survive" we live to enjoy and expand ourselves using the resources provided from Earth with respect and dignity, we live a Dignified life where suffering is simply not an option!

Will all software become free software in EMS?


Will all software become free software in EMS?

As all resources will be equally available in Equal Money System, so will software.
Software at the moment makes a huge amount of profit, and it simply makes it hard for people who need to use the software to have access to it.
In EMS, software will be available to everyone who needs it for free. It will be created and designed to serve it's purpose to people who need it in order to create and express themselves within the digital world. If someone wants to learn a software program such as Photoshop (for example) they should have the access to do so. WE are creative beings and everyone has something to offer as an expression of themselves. Resources should be available to everyone!!!

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What information will the Global Logistics Database keep and who will have what access in EMS?






What information will the Global Logistics Database keep and who will have what access in EMS?


The Global Logistics Database will keep all statistical information about everything. Like a "huge" computer that stores all the information about everyone and about everything. Of course everyone will have access to view it and it will be updated on regular basis to keep up with the changes that will be occurring as we transition from the current system to the Equal Money System. It will serve the purpose of giving us statistical feedback of our reality and based on that information we will build and do what is best for all. To read about what is best for all and get an idea on a small and large scale visit: http://antoaneta36.blogspot.com/2011/10/what-is-best-for-all-is-what-is-best.html  Or you can read on this topic at the first volume of FAQ which you can find at our store http://eqafe.com/


So The Global Logistics Database will have some of the following information (the following are brainstormed ideas from people participating in Desteni)
-data of all the products that are being produced to make sure they are made as best for all
-product analysis to see which products will be stopped and the level of quality
-looking at all the existing alternatives for building homes that are as environmentally friendly as possible built to keep energy production at a minimum
-levels of toxicity in our food, bodies and resources 
  1. -data on location of industrial plants
  2. -resources in the soil of a particular region
  3. -seeing the terms and conditions and actual requirement of for example imported products
  4. -homeless children or in slavery-investigate so not forgotten
  5. -languages that are spoken in a specific area - for all the paperwork to be in the right language
  6. -agricultural data including irrigation and dams
  7. -data on the requirement to supply of houses to those that don't have any
  8. -condition of buildings and large halls for gathering
  9. -what buildings can be used for storage and logistics to have the necessary goods available in all areas
  10. -birth rate data
  11. -habitat
  12. And so on, the list can go on. The main idea is that all information will be publicly displayed.


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Tanning and Equal Money System





When I was younger (20-25yr) I was obsessed with tanning in the sun. I had built up this image of myself and girls in general that darker is more sexy than white, pale skin. This was also link to a period in my life where I saw white people as not pretty enough and that dark skinned people looked better. I was into finding guys to date that were in the brown skin shade (or rather I found them more attractive which went with my idea that darker appeared better). And I dreamed of having a child that was of a mix race. The appearance was to be "light eyes and fairly dark skin".
I remember going to Bulgaria the summer of 2003 (I was almost 21yr). I was there for a month visiting family and friends. With some friends we went to the Black Sea for 2 weeks. I spend a huge amount of time under the sun with one purpose-getting darker. What was interesting was the fact that I saw "natural" tanning as better than "fake" tanning. I had associated fake tanning with "fakeness". Of course at the time I justified it and I didn't see that my tanning in essence was fake as well (in a different sense). I was trying to be something I am not and I was willing to damage my skin for it. Don't get me wrong there is nothing wrong about having some sun, however my starting point was not self honest (wanting to appear different than what I was and having the idea of dark being better) and I did more than a "normal" tanning. I went to the point to where I would not put on sunscreen because I thought it would make me tan faster and become darker faster. I also judged people who went to fake tanning salons as I associated them with "Barbie fake" and airheads.
About a year before I came across Desteni I had already began walking the realization that I should not try to look as something I am not. However as I began process with Desteni I had realized how fake I was towards myself and how I displayed this fakeness into my world, which affected my relationships with people and how I saw myself with others. Also the realization that tanning to such an extent was the same as putting make up, and hiding behind a fake mask (which was also something that I judged in others as I never wore make up).

I just came across this article/video
http://news.yahoo.com/blogs/sideshow/tanning-booth-mom-says-arrest-taking-daughter-5-153138630.html
I couldn't help but notice how dark this woman was from going to the tanning salon. The article itself is about her being blamed that she took her 6 year old to tan and she got a burn. The mother was arrested but she denied this happening. She goes on to say that her daughter plays in the salon area while waiting for her mom. Her words were "she plays princess, Barbie and stuff". Then she goes on to say that her daughter can make the decision if she wants to tan when she gets older.
I would say that her decision is already made. Unless her mom gets cancer and it has a strong impact on the daughter, her daughter is way on her route to FAKENESS LANE.

It is things like tanning to appear as something you are not that will not be tolerated in an Equal Money System as it is self abusive in nature. It is only common sense that once a person begins working on themselves, realizing and erasing all the fakeness they have accepted and allowed to exists as themselves with their world and on the larger scale, that they will be able to see that such things as a tanning salon becomes irrelevant and it will not be used, thus there is no reason for it's existence.
There is a lot of "fakeness" and abuse in the Capitalistic system that when broken down one must ask themselves the question "What the fuck are we doing to ourselves and others in the name of stupidity or greed?"


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